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When someone we know faces a serious illness, most of us find it hard to know what to do. Feeling helpless and uncertain, we say, "If you need anything, just call," but we know that's not really enough. Here's a list of truly useful ideas to show your concern and support for people who are close to you. |
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Don't avoid me. Be the friend, the loved one you've always been. |
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Touch me. A simple squeeze of the hand tells me you still care. |
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Call and tell me you're bringing over my favorite dish. Bring food in disposable containers so I won't worry about returning them. |
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Watch my children... while I take a little time to be alone with my loved one. My children may also need a vacation from my illness. |
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Cry with me when I cry and laugh with me when I laugh. Don't be afraid to share these emotions with me. Pain isolates. Help me reconnect with others. |
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Take me out for a pleasure trip... but know my limitations. |
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Call for my shopping list... and make a special delivery to my home. |
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Before you visit, call to let me know but ... don't be afraid to visit. I need you. I can get lonely. |
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Help me celebrate holidays (and life)... by decorating my hospital room or home, or by bringing me flowers or other natural treasures. |
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Help my family. Invite them out. Take them places. I am sick, but they may be suffering too. Offer to come and stay with me to give my loved ones a break. |
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Be creative. Bring me a book of thoughts, taped music, a poster for my wall, or cookies to share with my family and friends. |
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Let's talk about it. Maybe I need to talk about my illness. Find out by asking, "Do you feel like talking about it?" |
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